{"id":194,"date":"2004-12-10T10:37:04","date_gmt":"2004-12-10T15:37:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jackswriting.com\/?p=194"},"modified":"2013-03-25T11:59:17","modified_gmt":"2013-03-25T16:59:17","slug":"julie-fisher-sharpe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jackswriting.com\/?p=194","title":{"rendered":"Julie (Fisher) Sharpe"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>I first met Julie when I was in college at Western Michigan University. She was my &#8220;ex-wife&#8217;s&#8221; roommate. Julie had always been a friend and\u00a0we became closer when I was going through a divorce. Julie loved cats and always had several who allowed Julie to live in their house.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Some time ago I walked through a garden.<br \/>\nI had been there many times before.<br \/>\nI came to see the brilliant colors of the flowers<br \/>\nContrasted with the green leaves and grass.<br \/>\nThe garden was beautiful but, as I looked around,<br \/>\nI noticed that a Rose was missing.<br \/>\nI asked the gardener what had happened to it.<br \/>\nHe told me that it had been picked<br \/>\nAnd placed in a vase on a table in a restaurant<br \/>\nAnd at a candlelit dinner at that table a couple fell in love.<br \/>\nI was glad that the Rose had ended its life on Earth<br \/>\nIn such a noble way.<br \/>\nJust then a stranger walked by and said<br \/>\n&#8220;What a beautiful garden.<br \/>\nIsn&#8217;t this the most beautiful garden you have ever seen?&#8221;<br \/>\nAnd I said yes, not wanting to diminish his moment.<br \/>\nBut I thought to myself,<br \/>\n&#8220;You should have been here yesterday.<br \/>\nYes the garden is beautiful,<br \/>\nBut it is less for the missing Rose&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Some time ago I went for a run on a road<br \/>\nThat went through a beautiful forest.<br \/>\nI often ran that way to watch the birds build their nests,<br \/>\nAnd teach their young to fly.<br \/>\nTo watch the squirrels gather nuts<br \/>\nAnd chase each other up and down the trees.<br \/>\nAs I looked around I noticed that a small Spruce Tree was missing.<br \/>\nI asked the owner of the land what had happened.<br \/>\nHe told me that the small Spruce Tree had been cut down<br \/>\nAnd taken to a nursing home.<br \/>\nIt was being used as a Christmas tree.<br \/>\nAll of the residents that were able<br \/>\nWere decorating the tree.<br \/>\nIt became the center of their world<br \/>\nAnd it brought joy to all who saw it.<br \/>\nI was glad that the small Spruce Tree had ended its life on Earth<br \/>\nIn such a noble way.<br \/>\nJust then a stranger walked by and said<br \/>\n&#8220;What a beautiful forest.<br \/>\nIsn&#8217;t this the most beautiful forest you have ever seen?&#8221;<br \/>\nAnd I said yes, not wanting to diminish his moment.<br \/>\nBut I thought to myself,<br \/>\n&#8220;You should have been here yesterday.<br \/>\nYes the forest is beautiful,<br \/>\nBut it is less for the missing Spruce Tree&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I awoke Thanksgiving Day with great anticipation.<br \/>\nThere was much work to do.<br \/>\nFamily was home and friends would be stopping by.<br \/>\nThe turkey needed to be stuffed and put in the oven.<br \/>\nThe leaves needed to be put in the table.<br \/>\nExtra chairs needed to be brought downstairs from my office.<br \/>\nAs I looked around I noticed that a Friend was missing.<br \/>\nThere was no one to ask where she had gone.<br \/>\nSo I imagined that she was needed somewhere else<br \/>\nAnd she was there brightening their day<br \/>\nAnd being a Friend to them.<br \/>\nI was glad that the pain and suffering of her life on Earth was over<br \/>\nAnd she was in a better place<br \/>\nAnd she had faced death with courage in such a noble way.<br \/>\nJust then someone said<br \/>\n&#8220;What a beautiful Thanksgiving.<br \/>\nHere we are around the table with family and friends.<br \/>\nIsn&#8217;t this the most beautiful Thanksgiving you have ever seen?&#8221;<br \/>\nAnd I said yes, not wanting to diminish the moment.<br \/>\nBut I thought to myself,<br \/>\n&#8220;You should have been here yesterday.<br \/>\nYes this Thanksgiving is beautiful,<br \/>\nBut it is less for our missing Friend&#8221;.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;ll miss you, Julie!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I first met Julie when I was in college at Western Michigan University. 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